*ViIRGINS AND MAaaSTURBATION*
I get lots of questions on maaasturbation most especially from ladies -yes, ladies maaasturbate a lot, especially viiirgins. Guys also maaasturbate. There is no debate on that. I'm not here to argue about who maaasturbates most, I need to deal with a serious issue.
Sexuuual urge for viiirgins is strong. What makes it stronger is the novelty, newness, the mystery and the hear says about cex.
Maaasturbation is fondling your genitals consistently to achieve orgasm. Ladies may stroke their cclitoris while guys rub, maaassage or caress their peeenis. I decided to give explicit explanation because some ask me what maaasturbation is. Some ladies especially non-virgins use candles, banana, cucumber, small bottles, sticks, dildos or whatever represents a peeenis and do solo cex (having cex by yourself).
From teenage upward, you will have a strong desire for cex. It's a sure sign you are normal and capable of having and enjoying cex in marriage. In your 20s it will be stronger and intense! You may wake up feeling hhoorny for no single reason in the world or go hot on spotting a curvy lady! You may start noticing shapes and curves and you have to shake your head several times to keep the image off. You may get worked up on watching a romantic movie and discharge something. You check up and discover you are wet. All these are normal, you haven't committed any sin.
So what then do you do when you get hot and horny? Have sex? I
know you know my answer and some singles will never be caught dead sleeping around, so what do they do? They maasturbate! They give themselves release and pleasure through solo cex while claiming virginity at the same time. Masturbation is completely wrong and not the way out. Let me explain:
1. Maasturbation is not done in isolation. It is done with the image of someone in mind. It can be a lover, an EX, a celebrity, a married person, a crush, someone you like but incapable of having. You imagine having sex with them while masturbating. That is MENTAL
FORNICATION
2. For ladies, while inserting all manner of objects, you may mistakenly deflower yourself and also introduce infection into your genitals and womb. It will be very difficult to convince your future partner that you never had cex with man except objects during your solo cex.
3. You kill your ability to enjoy cex in future. Millions of women don't enjoy sex in marriage which leads to sexual frustration, adultery, lesbianism and feminism. If you are used to getting orgasm by yourself, you won't be able to get it from your husband. If you are used to objects in your private part, you won't have feelings for your husband's penis. You will always think of something harder, bigger, longer, larger and completely unrealistic! Women who complain their husbands' peenis are too small didn't marry as virgins. They must have been
promiscuous as singles.
4. You will not have a good sex life as a man. You will experience pre- mature ejaculation and your wife won't enjoy you leading to acute sexual frustration in marriage. You need self control to fully enjoy sex and give your wife maximum sexual pleasure. A woman enjoys sex
when the man can go on for at least 7 minutes before ejaculating. Because you are used to instant release from masturbation, you may
not be able to go more than a minute before exploding leaving your wife completely unsatisfied and frustrated. She may close up, become frigid and stop having sex altogether which may lead to you having an affair, she having an affair or both of you having an affair. Self control before marriage helps you enjoy sex to the maximum. You are able to delay ejaculation, go on for a long time and have excellent orgasm while giving your wife pleasure too. That is why total virginity pays! 5. If you do not suffer premature ejaculation, you may have serious problem with delayed/ retarded ejaculation. A situation where you get erection for several hours without ejaculation or orgasm. What is the benefit of sex without orgasm? Rough masturbation with your hands kills your ability to feel/enjoy sex with your wife. It is hell for a woman to be under a man who thrusts in for hours unable to ejaculate. How will the woman get pregnant? It's the reason some women are
seemingly "barren" and can't talk to anybody out of embarrassment. Thrusting hard for so long leaves the woman sore, frustrated and hating sex altogether. You have so much to lose sexually when you masturbate. Abstaining from this degrading act helps you feel relaxed, confident, have normal sexual intercourse and enjoy the pleasures that comes with sex IN MARRIAGE!
6. You start having sex in the dream with a known or unknown person (demonic entities other wise known as spiritual spouse).
7. You feel drained, dirty, empty, useless and powerless after each act. 8. You start getting unsatisfied and wants the real thing. You fantasize more about sex and start longing for the real act.
9. You get a warped view of the opposite sex. You see them as sexual objects and start having sex with anything in skirt or trousers -you become promiscuous.
10. You get damaged, hurt and broken.
11. You are at risk of hell fire!
These and more are the consequences of masturbation. They damage
you and shatter you to pieces! What then should you do with your sexual urge? How do you handle the constant hunger for sex?
1. Avoid all dirty pictures, pornography videos, pictures and hot, romantic movies -they are powerful sexual triggers!
2. Avoid friends who say dirty,lewd and obscene things. Stop all sexy banters with friends and say only things that are pure, holy, needful and helpful.
3. Get busy with your life, education and career, there is more to life than sex.
4. Transmute your sexual energy: Channel your sexual energy into something great. I had a strong sex drive in the institution. I simply channeled them into my education making me the best student in my department from the second year. I was very excited and energetic. I burnt the energy on my studies. If you don't burn that energy, you will have sex.
5. Study the word a lot especially Psalm 119. When you are filled with the word, you have no space for the devil and his demons in your heart.
6. Pray and speak in tongues (if you are born again) always. It sanctifies you.
7. Make friends with godly people.
8. Avoid pornography and romantic movies.
9. Get busy in kingdom service.
10. Give your life to Jesus if you are not born again. He will surely help you out.
Masturbation is wrong, bad, demonic, destructive and sinful. Avoid it and end it with speed if you are deeply involved in it. Jesus can help you. Call on him! God bless you.

THE REALITY OF FEAR:
-You're not scared of the dark, you're scared of what's in it.
-You're not afraid of heights, you're afraid of falling.
-You're not afraid of people around you, you're afraid of rejections.
-You're not afraid of love, you're afraid of not being loved back.
-You're not afraid to let go, you're just afraid to accept the reality that he/she is gone.
-You're not afraid to try again, you're just afraid of getting hurt by the same person/reason.

-More than 90% of people are no longer friends with someone that they once called their best friend.
True or false??

Any man can admire a woman but it takes a gentle man to make a woman admirable and beautiful...
Money is good to spice up a relationship but is not enough to keep a virtuous woman.
The secret to a woman's heart is not money but "attention and Communication"
Every woman has a trait of nagging; but it will became too obvious, when you're not straight forward..
# Helphertoloveyoubetter #
(1) Dating is advisable; but let your intention focus more on marriage...
(2) Be very sure that you truly want her in your love world, before giving her hope of marriage.
(3) Real men do not engage in " Sex" they prefer " "Love making" with 'bride price' love making becomes a legal entity.
(4) It is possible to make her happiness your priority; help her to actualize her aspirations.
(5) Bring out time and reason together; know her likes and dislike..
There is love in playing together...
(6) Not every woman wants " Already made "
Some are ready to transfer their blessing, if you're trustworthy.
(7) If you can't satisfy one woman, you can't make a good husband..
A real man understands that one is enough..
(8) Don't waste her time, when you don't have the intention to marry her..
Genuinely define what you shared from onset and keep to it...
(9) A woman can forget the day you took her out but she will NEVER forget the year, month,week, day,and date you cheated on her...
* Cheating is not a mistake is a choice..
(10) Respect her opinion; it makes her to feel loved and valued.
* Every woman wants you to carry her along.
Not after decision has been made..
(11) Send her MONEY; if you don't have....
Send airtime: they love alert, let it be alert of something....
*Love without giving becomes a mockery to the heart.
(12) if you think is not working out....
Be bold and open to say your mind..
*Giving attitude doesn't make you a bold Man..
(13) Stop calling "baby" use names that has positive impact, What happen to " Treasure " " "Angel " "Mine" " Choice " " Desire " etc..
(14) If you don't know the secret to make her laugh and smile, you're not romantic.
(15) Do not forget that the alter of prayer, is the alter of right choice....
Help her to love you better....
Don't shout on her ..
Don't use her past against her..
Be her strength not her weakness

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EVERY WOMAN SHOULD READ THESE 30 RULES FOR GODLY WOMEN...
1). Never raise your voice for any reason to your husband. Its a sign of disrespect.(Prov 15v1)
2). Don't expose your husband's weaknesses toyour family and friends. It will bounce back at you.You are each other's keeper.(Eph 5v12)
3). Never use attitudes and moods to communicate to your husband, you never know how your husband will interpret them. Defensive women don't have a happy home.(Prov 15v13)
4). Never compare your husband to other men, you've no idea what their life is all about. If you attack his Ego, his Love for you will diminish.
5). Never ill treat your husband's friends because you don't like them, the person who's supposed to get rid of them is your husband.(Prov 11v22)
6). Never forget that your husband married you, not your maid or anyone else. Do your duties.(Gen 2v24)
7). Never assign anyone to give attention to your husband, people may do everything else but your husband is your own responsibility.(Eph 5v33)
. Never blame your husband if he comes back home empty handed. Rather encourage him.(Deut 3v28)
9). Never be a wasteful wife, your husband's sweat is too precious to be wasted.
10). Never pretend to be sick for the purpose of denying your husband sex. You must give it to him how he wants it. Sex is very important to Men, if you keep denying him, it is a matter of time before another woman takes over theat duty. No man can withstand sex starvation for too long(even the anointed ones) (SS 7v12)
11). Never compare your husband to your one time sex mate in bedroom, or an Ex-lover. Your home may Never recover from it if you do.(SS 5v9)
12). Never answer for your husband in public opinion polls, let him handle what is directed to him although he may answer for you in public opinion polls.(Prov 31v23)
13). Never shout or challenge your husband in front of children. Wise Women don't do that.(Eph 4v31)
14). Don't forget to check the smartness of your husband before he checks out.(Prov 12v4)
15). Never allow your friends to be too close to your husband.
16). Never be in a hurry in the bathroom and on the dressing table. Out there your husband is always surrounded by women who took their time on their looks.( 1 Sam25v3)
17). Your parents or family or friends do not have the final say in your marriage. Don't waste your time looking up to them for a final word. You must Leave if you want to Cleave.(Luke 21v16)
18). Never base your love on monetary things. Will you still submit to him even if you earn more money than him?
19). Don't forget that husbands want attention and good listeners, never be too busy for him. Good communication is the bed rock of every happy home. (Gal 6v9)
20). If your idea worked better than his, never compare yourself to him. Its always teamwork.(Gal 6v10)
21). Don't be too judgemental to your husband. No man wants a Nagging wife.(Eph 4v29)
22). A lazy wife is a careless wife. She doesn't even know that her body needs a bath.(Prov 24v27)(Prov 20v13)
23). Does your husband like a kind of cooked food?, try to change your cooking. No man jokes with food. (Prov 31v14)
24). Never be too demanding to your husband,enjoy every moment, resource as it comes.(Luke 11v3)
25). Make a glass of water the very first welcome to your husband and everyone entering your home. Sweetness of attitude is true beauty. (Prov 31v11)
26). Don't associate with women who have a wrong mental attitude about marriage.(Prov 22v14)
27). Your marriage is as valuable to you as the value that you give it. Recklessness is unacceptable.(Heb 13v4)
28). Fruit of the womb is a blessing from the Lord, love your children and teach them well.(Prov 22v6)
29). You are never too old to influence your home. Never reduce your care for your family for any reason. (Prov 31v28)
30). A prayerful wife is a better equipped wife, pray always for your husband and family(1 Thess 5v17)

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1. Write her a letter.
Women are emotional creatures. As such, written word touches our soul even more than spoken words. The thing about a love letter is that it lasts forever. She can always go back and read it as many times as she wants to. Although you can say sweet things, it changes a little every time. You can never get that exact moment back. Write her a letter telling her how much you love her so that she can preserve that moment for a lifetime.
2. Play with her hair.
Simple, yet satisfying. I have no idea what it is about a man playing in our hair, but it sure does say a lot about how you feel about us. If I had to figure it out, I’d say that it’s the stillness and the quality time that comes with you playing in our hair. It’s like the forehead kiss. A small gesture that really shows how much you care.
3. Tell her your favorite things about her.
Now you can be creative with this and it still doesn’t have to cost you a dime. Don’t just list off your favorite things about her, although she’d still think it was just as sweet. Find a creative way to show her all your favorite things about her; the timeless things that you’ll love until the day she dies.
4. Eat her out.
Yes, I went there. One of the simplest ways to show her that you really care about her is to eat her out—and not just the bare minimum either. I mean really go all out, like you love it—like you love her. There is a difference and we can feel it. If you’re one of those guys who still isn’t “into it” then you may not be with the right person. When she’s worth it, you’ll get over that ‘eww’ factor and you’ll learn to love it simply because you love her. Just FYI.
5. Plan a future with her.
This is what it’s all about. When you know that she’s the one, you plan a future with her. Any woman who is committing herself to you 100% is looking for this right here. Don’t let her fool you. If she’s not moved by the thought of a future with you then you two should definitely see other people. That goes for you, too. You two may have already discussed some things about your future together, but actually start. Start a savings account together. Choose a song. Pick a wedding color. Whatever you two can agree is an actual ‘start’ to a future together.

WHY MEN ARE CALLED "GROOM”, AND THE WOMAN “THE BRIDE” ON WEDDING DAY?..
Why is the newly wedded man called groom and the woman called bride? A friend of mine got tired of his wife just about six months after wedding. He complained bitterly to me about her and told me that he has concluded to break up with her; he went on to say that he was sure that he made a mistake. I did not respond immediately because I knew I must tell him that right thing, so I went home. And that is
what birth this message. Many men have broken up with their wives because they end up not being the wife that they have dreamt of. But they have forgotten that on their wedding day was when the man was commissioned for the new task.Nobody calls the woman wife on her wedding day but bride,because it is the man that will groom his bride to become the wife.That is why the man is called ‘bridegroom or groom’ and the word grooming has to do with patiently nurturing, teaching, tending and helping someone to become what he or she should be.It is therefore believed that a man that takes a woman to the altar of marriage is matured enough to patiently groom his bride to become the wife. The man is not supposed to just expect the bride to automatically become the wife, she must be groomed. It is clear that many of us men have unnecessary expectations when we were getting married, we want some magic to happen to our wives, we want them to become what we have had in mind about who we want our wives to be; not considering the fact that the woman does not know what is on your mind except you teach her.
Our expectations are often too unrealistic, because we don’t remember that change takes time and we can only expect something from someone that knows what we want. So before you think of breaking up, have you groomed her? Have you given her time to understand you? Hope you realize that a turtle will never become a hawk? God often brings people that are opposites of each other together in marriage so that they can help each other in their place of weaknesses. If your wife is weak where you are weak, then where will you get the strength that is needed? The problem with many of us is that we don’t accept people before attempting to change them. Of course, our wives are not from our backgrounds, so it will take time for them to adjust. Stop trying to change her, accept her, love her, teach her and be patient with her; that is what grooming is all about. She is going to be your wife but she is your bride now, so groom her. Stop complaining about her, she may be a turtle and you a hawk, she cannot fly so be patient with her. I don’t believe that your marriage can’t work, be patient and allow God to help you.

"Baby, leave my bre ast let me watch this movie in peace na, you de rush the bre ast like say na shawarma wey you thief "
"Don't tell me that oh, when I married you, I paid for my br east too, besides eh, this movie I'm watching is not as interesting as what I am touching "
Oluchi almost choked with laughter
"Okay, just put your hand inside since it's scratching you, ashawo husband like you"
"See you forming good person, when night reach now, you be wriggling like someone under annointing. You that does not allow me to sleep in the night, you de run marathon like all these people for Ethiopia and Kenya "
Oluchi looked at Ken, pretending to be angry.
"So because I de try manage you, you de run mouth ba? No worry, no show for you this night, konji go kill you this night, bet me" she said stretching out her hands.
"If dem born you well make you try am. I will cry till the whole neighbors will wake up and ask what the problem is, I will tell them my wife does not want me to sacrifice to the gods "
She laughed hard again and gave him a mild kiss.
"Oya, see eh, just make me my favorite food na, by the time the meal is ready, I will be done with the movie "
Ken quickly runs to the kitchen and puts on his apron as he proceeds to make her favourite food, jollof rice and fried plantain.
Just then there is a knock on the door and Oluchi opens the door to welcome Jude, Ken's friend.
They exchange pleasantries and she tells him that Ken is in the kitchen.
"Kitchen?" he asked with a surprise look on his face.
"What is he doing there? "
"He is planting mango in the kitchen sink, ofcourse he is cooking " Oluchi said with a smirk on her face. She's never liked him.
"So your husband is in the kitchen cooking while you watch TV?"
Just as she was about to reply him, Ken comes out from the kitchen.
"Ken wassup, I was just asking of you, your wife said you were in the kitchen " Jude said with a grin on his face.
"You make it sound like its a bad thing man, how far na" Ken said.
Jude drags Ken aside
"But bro, this is wrong by all standards, how can you be cooking while your wife sits with the remote, watching TV? This isn't normal. This kind of thing cannot happen in my house na, a whole man like you, do you know how many girls used to rush you back in those days"
Ken wipes his hands on the apron as he shakes his head.
"Jude Jude, why did you come here sef? "
"I came to inform you that we will be meeting later at the club , I called you but you didn't take your calls,now that I have seen you on your apron, I'm not surprised "
"Jude my good friend, first thing first,I am not you and will never be you. What works in your Family might not work for mine and I don't even want it to. My wife cooks everyday for me so what's the big deal in cooking for her just for today? I am always with my wife in the kitchen everyday to help her out, and so you know, I wash my clothes and hers when I have the time and I don't leave her to do the chores alone. She's my wife, not my slave "
At this point Jude didn't know what to say, he just stood there like a dumb lunatic.
"Look Jude, no two marriages are the same, do what you like but don't kill Becca in the process. Have you seen your wife lately? She looks like a frustrated mad woman, so thin and almost invisible and you are here , forming man of the house "
Jude brings out his handkerchief and wipes his face.
"I won't come to the club today, infact, I won't come for a while.My wife doesn't like clubbing that much and since she gave up her modeling career to do business because of me, I need to let go of somethings too. I need to get back to the kitchen, my regards to the boys "
Jude hasten his steps as he walks out of the house.
"My husband my husband, double ration for you this night, correct man wey sabi. Infact you see eh, de go that kitchen, make I do u rush rush inside"
"Baby make I rush off the gas make we no do rough play burn house "
# Leave people alone and stop forcing your policies on them
# What works for you might not work for them, don't try to make people live like you except it's to make them better.
# Marriage is a union of happiness, make your home a playground, not a war zone .
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# Share the chores, don't call her a weaker vessel and still give her all the hard work to do.
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* SIGNS OF IMMATURITY IN MARRIAGE FOR MEN: *
* 1. Rejecting food when there's an issue: *
Mr Husband, you've got your wife money for food and it's been prepared for you because you're angry. It's one of the greatest signs of immaturity, it's time to grow up! You should not be leaving your home for any reason. You could go somewhere else when you do not really want to go there.
* 2. Telling your wife severally you are the head: *
May you know that even when your wife disobeys / disrespect you she still knows that you are the head. You need not shout or scream it daily. Gold do we need to get a slot on CNN? It's important for you to be able to get your hands on your feet, but do not know how to get married.
* 3. Issuing threats: *
beating, verbally abusing your wife, An EMPTY barrel makes loudest noise. Your strength is in your ability to tame your tongue and control your fist. When she is acting on her "childish woman" part, play the "matured man."
* 4. Reporting your wife to friends and family: *
When your wife offends you, ok
and talk things through. You do not have to tell everyone about her mistakes, that you will not be able to redeem her back.
By the way, are you a reporter answer my question?
* 5. Keeping malice: *
is it not funny to know that some men keep malice? Some of them even nag, criticize, abuse and call their names wives in public. It can make you look like a "big boy" who's in control but you're not going to gain anything good from it.
* 6. Not helping with house chores *:
I must say that it is the sole responsibility of a woman to tend and manage a home.
However, it is not a bad thing if a man lends to helping hand when necessary. Watching football with your day in the morning, you can not help it, but it's just that you'll be able to help yourself. make a good example to the kids especially the boys. Some men do not even say "thank you" for their wives after eating, all of them are comparing her with other women. It's a shame that after having 3-4 kids can not change to simple diaper or prepare cereal meals; a big shame.
* My point *
A REAL man is a pillar of support to his wife, not a hole of depression.

However, when a relationship becomes more work than it is fun, it can mean that the relationship is slowly dying.
“In other words, if you can’t talk about the hard things, you’ll also feel less warmth and affection; and over time less fondness and admiration for your partner, ” adds Gaspard.
Has your relationship been through a rough patch lately that doesn’t seem to end? You may want to check out these signs of a dying relationship, and see if it’s time to let the relationship go – for your sake, and your partner’s.
Here Are 7 Signs Of A Dying Relationship
1. You don’t talk about personal things anymore
At the beginning of the relationship, maybe you discussed all of your hopes and dreams, and serious issues in your life. But now, it seems like all of your conversations are rehearsed and rehashed small talk. You’re no longer discussing real, emotional things and instead, seem to only talk about how your day went and what to have for dinner.
“ When you share your struggles and difficulties you not only strengthen your bond through your vulnerability but you also set the precedence for an open and nonjudgmental relationship for the future, ” says life and wellness coach Dana Peters.
Therefore, it’s clear that when there’s nothing left to talk about, the relationship starts to die.
2. You’re never on the same page
When a relationship is dying, your values are no longer as aligned as they once were. “ Disagreements turn toxic when your partner can’t even understand where your opinion is coming from, ” says relationship coach and author Kira Asatryan.
Perhaps you grew up into two different people than you had been when you first started dating, or when you first got married. Important things that mean a lot to you no longer mean the same to your partner, or vice versa. “…
disagreeing without understanding the other person’s perspective indicates a deep lack of understanding of the other person… in general. And somebody who doesn’t understand you will not make a great long-term partner, ” adds Asatryan.
Whatever the issue, you can never seem to agree.
3. You complain about the same things
The sink is broken. They don’t pick up their laundry. You leave hair in the drain. Whatever the issue, the complaint arises over and over, and it never gets fixed. This means that you and your partner are no longer actively trying to make the other happy. The things that upset you go in one ear and out of the other. When this happens, a relationship starts to die.
4. You argue more often
At the beginning of your relationship, maybe everything was so happy and wonderful that you never argued at all. But now, it seems like all you do is argue. And the arguments are all about mundane or superficial things … or, maybe they’re the exact same argument that you’ve been having for years that never seems to have an end, and there’s no way to resolve.
“ As couples get to know each other better, there should be a progression toward more understanding and less misunderstanding, ” says psychoanalyst Sue Kolod, PhD. Therefore, more arguments mean that there’s less compromise, which means the relationship is dying.
5. You want more space
When your partner goes to visit their parents, or goes on a business trip, you get a huge sense of relief at having space to yourself. You no longer miss your partner during the day like you once did, and you feel your need for “space” seeming to increase more and more frequently.
“ If you’re all that excited to have a weekend alone, consider that the reason for your joy is that they’re draining you when they’re around, ” says relationship expert April Masini. Wanting more space is a huge, red flag of a dying relationship when you no longer want to be around your partner, or are happier when they’re not around.
6. You don’t feel like yourself
When you’re around your partner, do you feel more anxious, depressed or uncomfortable than you used to? Are you no longer the happy, talkative person that you once were? A dying relationship can make you feel all kinds of upset and negative emotions, and you suddenly no longer feel like yourself anymore. Maybe your friends and family notice that your personality has begun to change. This is a sign that a relationship is on its last leg.
7. You’re unsure about your future
When thinking about your future, are you suddenly no longer envisioning yourself with them by your side? Has your small family home in the suburbs suddenly turned into a vision of a studio in New York? If you no longer think about them in your future, it may be a sign that they’re not destined to be there. A dying relationship will no longer feel like something that you can look forward to in the future.
Final thoughts
While we all want to keep our relationships as happy and healthy as possible, sometimes two people just simply don’t work out in a relationship. And that’s okay! No matter how long you’ve been together, there’s always a chance that you both just need to move on from one another. If that is the case, knowing the early warning signs of a dying relationship will allow you to move on, or work on fixing it if that is something you and your partner want to do.