*ViIRGINS AND MAaaSTURBATION*
I get lots of questions on maaasturbation most especially from ladies -yes, ladies maaasturbate a lot, especially viiirgins. Guys also maaasturbate. There is no debate on that. I'm not here to argue about who maaasturbates most, I need to deal with a serious issue.
Sexuuual urge for viiirgins is strong. What makes it stronger is the novelty, newness, the mystery and the hear says about cex.
Maaasturbation is fondling your genitals consistently to achieve orgasm. Ladies may stroke their cclitoris while guys rub, maaassage or caress their peeenis. I decided to give explicit explanation because some ask me what maaasturbation is. Some ladies especially non-virgins use candles, banana, cucumber, small bottles, sticks, dildos or whatever represents a peeenis and do solo cex (having cex by yourself).
From teenage upward, you will have a strong desire for cex. It's a sure sign you are normal and capable of having and enjoying cex in marriage. In your 20s it will be stronger and intense! You may wake up feeling hhoorny for no single reason in the world or go hot on spotting a curvy lady! You may start noticing shapes and curves and you have to shake your head several times to keep the image off. You may get worked up on watching a romantic movie and discharge something. You check up and discover you are wet. All these are normal, you haven't committed any sin.
So what then do you do when you get hot and horny? Have sex? I
know you know my answer and some singles will never be caught dead sleeping around, so what do they do? They maasturbate! They give themselves release and pleasure through solo cex while claiming virginity at the same time. Masturbation is completely wrong and not the way out. Let me explain:
1. Maasturbation is not done in isolation. It is done with the image of someone in mind. It can be a lover, an EX, a celebrity, a married person, a crush, someone you like but incapable of having. You imagine having sex with them while masturbating. That is MENTAL
FORNICATION
2. For ladies, while inserting all manner of objects, you may mistakenly deflower yourself and also introduce infection into your genitals and womb. It will be very difficult to convince your future partner that you never had cex with man except objects during your solo cex.
3. You kill your ability to enjoy cex in future. Millions of women don't enjoy sex in marriage which leads to sexual frustration, adultery, lesbianism and feminism. If you are used to getting orgasm by yourself, you won't be able to get it from your husband. If you are used to objects in your private part, you won't have feelings for your husband's penis. You will always think of something harder, bigger, longer, larger and completely unrealistic! Women who complain their husbands' peenis are too small didn't marry as virgins. They must have been
promiscuous as singles.
4. You will not have a good sex life as a man. You will experience pre- mature ejaculation and your wife won't enjoy you leading to acute sexual frustration in marriage. You need self control to fully enjoy sex and give your wife maximum sexual pleasure. A woman enjoys sex
when the man can go on for at least 7 minutes before ejaculating. Because you are used to instant release from masturbation, you may
not be able to go more than a minute before exploding leaving your wife completely unsatisfied and frustrated. She may close up, become frigid and stop having sex altogether which may lead to you having an affair, she having an affair or both of you having an affair. Self control before marriage helps you enjoy sex to the maximum. You are able to delay ejaculation, go on for a long time and have excellent orgasm while giving your wife pleasure too. That is why total virginity pays! 5. If you do not suffer premature ejaculation, you may have serious problem with delayed/ retarded ejaculation. A situation where you get erection for several hours without ejaculation or orgasm. What is the benefit of sex without orgasm? Rough masturbation with your hands kills your ability to feel/enjoy sex with your wife. It is hell for a woman to be under a man who thrusts in for hours unable to ejaculate. How will the woman get pregnant? It's the reason some women are
seemingly "barren" and can't talk to anybody out of embarrassment. Thrusting hard for so long leaves the woman sore, frustrated and hating sex altogether. You have so much to lose sexually when you masturbate. Abstaining from this degrading act helps you feel relaxed, confident, have normal sexual intercourse and enjoy the pleasures that comes with sex IN MARRIAGE!
6. You start having sex in the dream with a known or unknown person (demonic entities other wise known as spiritual spouse).
7. You feel drained, dirty, empty, useless and powerless after each act. 8. You start getting unsatisfied and wants the real thing. You fantasize more about sex and start longing for the real act.
9. You get a warped view of the opposite sex. You see them as sexual objects and start having sex with anything in skirt or trousers -you become promiscuous.
10. You get damaged, hurt and broken.
11. You are at risk of hell fire!
These and more are the consequences of masturbation. They damage
you and shatter you to pieces! What then should you do with your sexual urge? How do you handle the constant hunger for sex?
1. Avoid all dirty pictures, pornography videos, pictures and hot, romantic movies -they are powerful sexual triggers!
2. Avoid friends who say dirty,lewd and obscene things. Stop all sexy banters with friends and say only things that are pure, holy, needful and helpful.
3. Get busy with your life, education and career, there is more to life than sex.
4. Transmute your sexual energy: Channel your sexual energy into something great. I had a strong sex drive in the institution. I simply channeled them into my education making me the best student in my department from the second year. I was very excited and energetic. I burnt the energy on my studies. If you don't burn that energy, you will have sex.
5. Study the word a lot especially Psalm 119. When you are filled with the word, you have no space for the devil and his demons in your heart.
6. Pray and speak in tongues (if you are born again) always. It sanctifies you.
7. Make friends with godly people.
8. Avoid pornography and romantic movies.
9. Get busy in kingdom service.
10. Give your life to Jesus if you are not born again. He will surely help you out.
Masturbation is wrong, bad, demonic, destructive and sinful. Avoid it and end it with speed if you are deeply involved in it. Jesus can help you. Call on him! God bless you.

THE REALITY OF FEAR:
-You're not scared of the dark, you're scared of what's in it.
-You're not afraid of heights, you're afraid of falling.
-You're not afraid of people around you, you're afraid of rejections.
-You're not afraid of love, you're afraid of not being loved back.
-You're not afraid to let go, you're just afraid to accept the reality that he/she is gone.
-You're not afraid to try again, you're just afraid of getting hurt by the same person/reason.

-More than 90% of people are no longer friends with someone that they once called their best friend.
True or false??

Any man can admire a woman but it takes a gentle man to make a woman admirable and beautiful...
Money is good to spice up a relationship but is not enough to keep a virtuous woman.
The secret to a woman's heart is not money but "attention and Communication"
Every woman has a trait of nagging; but it will became too obvious, when you're not straight forward..
# Helphertoloveyoubetter #
(1) Dating is advisable; but let your intention focus more on marriage...
(2) Be very sure that you truly want her in your love world, before giving her hope of marriage.
(3) Real men do not engage in " Sex" they prefer " "Love making" with 'bride price' love making becomes a legal entity.
(4) It is possible to make her happiness your priority; help her to actualize her aspirations.
(5) Bring out time and reason together; know her likes and dislike..
There is love in playing together...
(6) Not every woman wants " Already made "
Some are ready to transfer their blessing, if you're trustworthy.
(7) If you can't satisfy one woman, you can't make a good husband..
A real man understands that one is enough..
(8) Don't waste her time, when you don't have the intention to marry her..
Genuinely define what you shared from onset and keep to it...
(9) A woman can forget the day you took her out but she will NEVER forget the year, month,week, day,and date you cheated on her...
* Cheating is not a mistake is a choice..
(10) Respect her opinion; it makes her to feel loved and valued.
* Every woman wants you to carry her along.
Not after decision has been made..
(11) Send her MONEY; if you don't have....
Send airtime: they love alert, let it be alert of something....
*Love without giving becomes a mockery to the heart.
(12) if you think is not working out....
Be bold and open to say your mind..
*Giving attitude doesn't make you a bold Man..
(13) Stop calling "baby" use names that has positive impact, What happen to " Treasure " " "Angel " "Mine" " Choice " " Desire " etc..
(14) If you don't know the secret to make her laugh and smile, you're not romantic.
(15) Do not forget that the alter of prayer, is the alter of right choice....
Help her to love you better....
Don't shout on her ..
Don't use her past against her..
Be her strength not her weakness

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EVERY WOMAN SHOULD READ THESE 30 RULES FOR GODLY WOMEN...
1). Never raise your voice for any reason to your husband. Its a sign of disrespect.(Prov 15v1)
2). Don't expose your husband's weaknesses toyour family and friends. It will bounce back at you.You are each other's keeper.(Eph 5v12)
3). Never use attitudes and moods to communicate to your husband, you never know how your husband will interpret them. Defensive women don't have a happy home.(Prov 15v13)
4). Never compare your husband to other men, you've no idea what their life is all about. If you attack his Ego, his Love for you will diminish.
5). Never ill treat your husband's friends because you don't like them, the person who's supposed to get rid of them is your husband.(Prov 11v22)
6). Never forget that your husband married you, not your maid or anyone else. Do your duties.(Gen 2v24)
7). Never assign anyone to give attention to your husband, people may do everything else but your husband is your own responsibility.(Eph 5v33)
. Never blame your husband if he comes back home empty handed. Rather encourage him.(Deut 3v28)
9). Never be a wasteful wife, your husband's sweat is too precious to be wasted.
10). Never pretend to be sick for the purpose of denying your husband sex. You must give it to him how he wants it. Sex is very important to Men, if you keep denying him, it is a matter of time before another woman takes over theat duty. No man can withstand sex starvation for too long(even the anointed ones) (SS 7v12)
11). Never compare your husband to your one time sex mate in bedroom, or an Ex-lover. Your home may Never recover from it if you do.(SS 5v9)
12). Never answer for your husband in public opinion polls, let him handle what is directed to him although he may answer for you in public opinion polls.(Prov 31v23)
13). Never shout or challenge your husband in front of children. Wise Women don't do that.(Eph 4v31)
14). Don't forget to check the smartness of your husband before he checks out.(Prov 12v4)
15). Never allow your friends to be too close to your husband.
16). Never be in a hurry in the bathroom and on the dressing table. Out there your husband is always surrounded by women who took their time on their looks.( 1 Sam25v3)
17). Your parents or family or friends do not have the final say in your marriage. Don't waste your time looking up to them for a final word. You must Leave if you want to Cleave.(Luke 21v16)
18). Never base your love on monetary things. Will you still submit to him even if you earn more money than him?
19). Don't forget that husbands want attention and good listeners, never be too busy for him. Good communication is the bed rock of every happy home. (Gal 6v9)
20). If your idea worked better than his, never compare yourself to him. Its always teamwork.(Gal 6v10)
21). Don't be too judgemental to your husband. No man wants a Nagging wife.(Eph 4v29)
22). A lazy wife is a careless wife. She doesn't even know that her body needs a bath.(Prov 24v27)(Prov 20v13)
23). Does your husband like a kind of cooked food?, try to change your cooking. No man jokes with food. (Prov 31v14)
24). Never be too demanding to your husband,enjoy every moment, resource as it comes.(Luke 11v3)
25). Make a glass of water the very first welcome to your husband and everyone entering your home. Sweetness of attitude is true beauty. (Prov 31v11)
26). Don't associate with women who have a wrong mental attitude about marriage.(Prov 22v14)
27). Your marriage is as valuable to you as the value that you give it. Recklessness is unacceptable.(Heb 13v4)
28). Fruit of the womb is a blessing from the Lord, love your children and teach them well.(Prov 22v6)
29). You are never too old to influence your home. Never reduce your care for your family for any reason. (Prov 31v28)
30). A prayerful wife is a better equipped wife, pray always for your husband and family(1 Thess 5v17)

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1. Write her a letter.
Women are emotional creatures. As such, written word touches our soul even more than spoken words. The thing about a love letter is that it lasts forever. She can always go back and read it as many times as she wants to. Although you can say sweet things, it changes a little every time. You can never get that exact moment back. Write her a letter telling her how much you love her so that she can preserve that moment for a lifetime.
2. Play with her hair.
Simple, yet satisfying. I have no idea what it is about a man playing in our hair, but it sure does say a lot about how you feel about us. If I had to figure it out, I’d say that it’s the stillness and the quality time that comes with you playing in our hair. It’s like the forehead kiss. A small gesture that really shows how much you care.
3. Tell her your favorite things about her.
Now you can be creative with this and it still doesn’t have to cost you a dime. Don’t just list off your favorite things about her, although she’d still think it was just as sweet. Find a creative way to show her all your favorite things about her; the timeless things that you’ll love until the day she dies.
4. Eat her out.
Yes, I went there. One of the simplest ways to show her that you really care about her is to eat her out—and not just the bare minimum either. I mean really go all out, like you love it—like you love her. There is a difference and we can feel it. If you’re one of those guys who still isn’t “into it” then you may not be with the right person. When she’s worth it, you’ll get over that ‘eww’ factor and you’ll learn to love it simply because you love her. Just FYI.
5. Plan a future with her.
This is what it’s all about. When you know that she’s the one, you plan a future with her. Any woman who is committing herself to you 100% is looking for this right here. Don’t let her fool you. If she’s not moved by the thought of a future with you then you two should definitely see other people. That goes for you, too. You two may have already discussed some things about your future together, but actually start. Start a savings account together. Choose a song. Pick a wedding color. Whatever you two can agree is an actual ‘start’ to a future together.